When I read the report stating that under half of the 1260 women that gave birth felt they got the advice and support needed after giving birth. I felt I understood this statistic completely. I began thinking about the time that Aran was born. I could clearly see that widwives were stretched for time, Some of them looked so stressed that you daren’t ask them for help. Health visits seemed to be a in and out thing, no stopping for a chat. I was at a loss as to whom to ask for help. I had felt so alone at times and the sleepless nights were really sapping my energy. I just didn’t know how to manage my day. I was finding it hard to juggle normal life and that was really not like me at all. To be honest it took a while for me to feel myself again.
Having a baby changes a womens life forever and the adjustments and transition would so much smoother if the support was there from someone ‘in the know’ and someone who understands. It is absolutely crucial that women at this time should feel supported and understood. Bringing a baby into the world is a truely amazing experience, but as mothers we have the need to feel that we are dotting the I’s and crossing the T’s with everything. It’s support, encouragement and confidence that we need to make sure we are doing the best for ourselves and for our baby.
This is where the help of a life coach can really help put all of your concerns into perspective and this is truely the answer. You need a structure and plan to follow, someone to help you thrash out those voices in your head, time for you and support to keep your state of mind confident and in control.
Your baby deserve the best of you, does it not? You deserve to be the best mum for your baby, do you not? That’s right, you both deserve the best and the best is what you’re going to get when working with a coach. Ladies, you must invest in your well being and that of your new born.
Like an olympic athlete winning gold for his country, you can win gold for being the best mum for your baby and the best women for you.
All the very best
Seema



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